Currently a Social Worker can undertake reports to an adoption prior to any court decision, thus as a planning process approve a care plan for adoption, rather than work to reunite or rehabilitate with Parents. It is prejudicial and destabilizing to parents who seek the return of children taken from them in a Justice system that is weighted against parents in any Family Court Proceedings. Social Workers act in an unchecked system, not audited and without adequate process and proceedures. Frameworks that never uses – shall or will – any contract with a statutory Parent or body should ensure unhuman Social Workers be required to act properly – not on a maybe or perhaps Framework.
Pararel Planning under ICO is costly and wasteful, given the time in Court Process under Care Proceedings a 6week direction by a Judge should be made prior after a fair open court hearing.
Currently Children are being taken to adoption without adequate Birth Parents rights and rights to child – ignoring Human Rights LAW.
The current proceedure is weighted against Parents.
The current frameworks has created increadible costs to public purse. Social workers use it to advantage of the system with no care to Parents or children. Currently Children Social Care and Cafacss is just an unfair and maladministered system creation of LA and State Ivory towers of – so called Public Servants milking the state and public purse and acting with no adequate fairness or honesty.
My child is going to be adopted without my consent I have no money to fight the courts,can anyone help me whAt do I do the social Services told lies anD the judge believed them,and rejected my. Appeal what cAn I do?please help me I’m slowly dying inside
ask for legal aid because the social services are involved there trying to do this to me aswell . i need help but stay strong dont give up
So sorry for you its happening to so many good parents going me read my site it has to end no more of crimes against humanity i will try with the help of other good people to end this and try and get the children returned home to where they blaong
use Mumbys Q v Q this may help
Can you help the social services told the courts lots of lies now they are going to adopt my daughter,the judges won’t listen to anything I have to say,what can I do?plase help me,I have no money,if I did I could fight for her,money talks
I know exactly how you feel. SS are trying to take my two boys even though i have made significant progress. I too feel im dying inside and there is no one hear to help. Please stop this abuse can anyone help me….
i want my daughter back as they took her under false pretencess and they are corrupt as ever
my son was taken from me and put with my mum i moved with my son but his social worker told me to move back to my flat after i said i would give his dad and my flat up to be with my son now hes in foster care waiting for a new family for him i really need help as i really want my son back
Social services took my 2 kids in to care and told to much lies made false body maps up which are not true we should all complain to mp
Jan Some MPs and certain Police staions are part of it brunwin poerty tells you lots my site I will fight them till the death to get justice for so many victims of social workers and thier colluding managers these are crimes agaqinst humanity so it has to stop now!!!
This is a common theme. Do not vote for MPs who disregard basic human rights and allow and promote forced adoption. Get rid of Narey the adoption Tsar from office!
Social Workers have carte blanch to do whatever they want- too much power corrupts- take some away and make them accountable if they make a mistake.
Get rid of Government incentives for adoption.
Remove the Guardians who only align themselves with social workers.
Ditto so called expert witnesses who write whatever their social workers paymasters.
Try every avenue with the birth family, not all parents are like Baby Peter’s mother Connelly!!! Some need assistance, not their lives wrecked by the unwarrented intervention of heartless social workers who strip everything from them, taking their homes and relationships leaving them alone and dying inside having to deal with loss & court proceedings destined to take their children into foster care and adoption. This is not justice. This is not protecting children, this is inhuman!!
A Jury should be in family court not a lone Judge.
If a parent/s are found to be be so bad criminal charges should be brought against them and they should have a proper trial- like Connelly undertook- Justice was served.
Social workers lie to much they are evil people they took my kids they are in care they made these false body maps up and are liers.and try to make u see Linda jeffs a phylogist who wants to fail u don’t go to her do yr own if u have to.
I agree hole heartily x x much love
My thoughts exactly. Social Workers… just another name for glorified bullies. This is one of the many reasons why the UK is descending into the Tenth Circle of Hell.
I am trying to stop ss forced adoption plans of my 9 month old son. I have done everything they have asked and because i can’t afford legal advice i’m powerless. they also have my other son and daughter. i am desperate to keep my children. most of their case against me is not even true!! yet everything that is positive is true and gets ignored. they get away with ripping families apart instead of helping. THIS MUST STOP!!
i feel the same my 2 children have not only been split from a loving and caring family they been split from each other 2 and now i been told they going 2 be adopted seperatly
I have had my little boy Oscar taken away when he was nearly 3 through what the hospital called ‘a non accidental injury’ he went to the doctors several times while in foster care with the same injury yet hes still being put up for adoption, he’s now with his potential adoptive parents and they have made an application to the courts for full custody, its sick and shameless what social services are allowed to do, THEY HAVE TOO MUCH POWER!! I hope you get to keep your baby and he doesnt end up in the nightmare his siblings are in. x
i am a grandmother and i have had my grandaughterwith me for twenty months have passed special guardianship passed afull phychological assassment but now ss are still trying to take my grandaughter for adoption based on that i wont be able to protect her from her parents even though we will move away and based on a claptrap assessment done on my grandaughter that says she will suffer problems because of abuse whilst in the womb and in her early months this has been dissputed by a phychologist yet they still are going to take her for adoption even though she is a happy thriveing little girl and is in a safe and loveing home this is so wrong this is going to seriously emotionly affect my children who are attached to her
hi my name is kelly ann my son was takein away from me at birth i had contact with him nd now thay have put him up for adoption and now i cant see him am only havein letter contact with him now but thats every year but am back in court now to fight for him back couse of the ss have lied all the way in my court case
hi my name is linda.me and my daughter are going throu the same thing please can you tell me how you get on ss are bulling my daughter to sign the adpotion papers we have no contacts with my grandson as they have lied in court
DONT LET YOUR DAUGHTER SIGN THOSE PAPERS!!! social services will tell your daughters child SHE wanted her child to go into care, I signed something at the beginning of the court proceedings with my son as i was an emotional wreck, and they said i’d get him back if I signed them, even my rubbish barrister looked through the ‘contract’ that was very underlying written, and he told me to go ahead with signing it, that was one of the biggest mistakes of my life!!
I believe something underhand is going on with s,s and guardians and goverment and it won’t come to light for years to come, as have the other scandals concerning adoption
Can you not take social service to court for illegal adaption or for taking child away for false reasons? Or better take them to European court of Human rights? There are no law stating that you can be punished without a crime (innocent until proven guilty) or punished for what might happen in the future. It’s illogical!!
i was told 4 me to take social services to court 4 misconduct it will cost me and i haven’t got that sort of money i feel that social services prey on those who haven’t much money
i got the bad news yesterday that both my 8 yr old son and 5 yr old daughter is going 2 be adopted i don’t know what to do i got no money 2 fight , social services told lies and so did a teacher at school , my house has always been clean and my children has always been well fed and cleanly dressed i am a really good mother but judges are not regarding what i say please can anyone help me this is killing me how can they get away with forced adoption its wrong and it needs to stop
Hi, i wish i could help you, I’m going through the same thing and May 17th of this year (2013) I went to court and was told my son who was then 3 and a half was being put up for adoption, crazy how our dates are so close together, there needs to be another organisation who work completely independent of ss like the guardian is ‘meant to’ but 9 times out of 10 the guardian will agree with ss. I dont think theirs anything either of us can do after adoption
thier putting my grandson up for adpotion ineed to stop this.ss have lied about myself and daughter please can anyboady help me.
I have a son whos currently been in foster care and its because of the dad, social services are now deciding to put my son up for adoption, i haven’t done anything wrong i just want my son.. its wrong! Children should be with there mums!
Your so right, kids should be with their mummys unless their is REAL reason to remove a child, like baby P. if their is physical harm to a child and theirs evidence that this physical injury has been caused by the parent or if their are drugs, violents etc then yes maybe remove the child until the parent or parents have got their act together but not put them up for adoption, alot of parents on here like myself have had drug problems but having your child removed is a huge wake up call and one that i’d hope would shape the parents into gear but taking the child away permanently is so wrong and should be stopped! its SICK!!
please tell me how ican stop ss from giving my grandson away thier lairs .and his foster carer treated me and my daughter like we where no one please help
Linda, so many people are going through the same as you and your daughter and all i can suggest is to go to ‘Familys for justice’ who help families whos children have been wrongly fostered, but after adoption, theirs nothing you can do
my nephew who is not biological who we have been looking after for 5 months is currently going through the courts by the sounds of it social have already decided that he will be adopted to someone else despite the fact my mum is willing to carry on bringing him up and be his guardian this is whats best for my nephew he is loved and social cant fault my mums care i need to fight this any ideas how.
Unfortunately I am having to go through this nightmare having tried to protect them. My variable order was full of lies contradictions which makes my blood boil. I am going to fight as this is inhuman
my bother lost his little girl 12 months ago,now he has been told the foster mother wants to adopt her.is there anyone out there with some real anwsers who can help stop this,as he will lose what little visits he has at the moment.
I hear all this about force adoption this is happing with my granson right now were are all the Solictors letting this happen we should all be in the criminal courts to be judge by jury not by ss that have all the Solictors to do this to family’s it is forced adoption and should be stopped right now
Well said!!! I’ve lost my little boy who I love more than words can express, so did his step dad and my parents, it makes me sick the amount of power ss have!!
Why is there so many cases on forced adoption yet nothing is done!we have really. Got to get our voices kids back and keep protesting everyone get. A collection of signatures from all around the uk and send them. To the newspapers,if anyone has any better ideas please send them to [email protected] as I will never give up the fight as. Long as I live,
I wont give up either Mary, my little boy has been taken and I need him back!! every day that passes I feel like i’m just waiting for the 14 years to pass until hes 18 when i can see him again, he was taken just before he was 3, we all need to do some kind of protest !!!!!!!!
I have 4 kids that are in cco.I want to know if mcfd can adopted my children out with out my concent.mcfd has called me to set up appointment to talk about my pass, and about my kids.so they can give the information to the new parents , when they find one.my gut feeling is not tell nothing to them.because if I did I would have to sign a form saying im ok with an open adoptions. And that is the same thing as signing my kids away. So I will not say anything to them.I wlln’t let them brain wash me. 6years I have been fight for my kids, they were kidnapped! Yes im dying inside and so are my children. This has to stop! Save the children! We have rights as a parent, so do children! KIDS HAVE RIGHTS!!!!
I think all of you and your friends and family should go out and make them hear you!take the picture of your child and show the whole world!make noise!be together every day,every night dont let them!!!Together YOU will change the system!Only TOGETHER!!!Go out and fight for your children like animals fight for their babyes!!!!!!!!!TOGETHER!!!!!!!
I have just had a beautiful baby girl nobody in my family has even met her coz straight from hospital she was taken in to foster care myself n my husband r heartbroken coz now she is 7 months she has been put up for forced adoption we have a massive family but yet ss want to have our precious flower our lovely baby adopted by strangers our sw lied to us n kept so much info from us
This going on so much my grandson is in the same apobtion we lose him in january why are they doing this because they can why is no one helping us .
I cannot believe actually how many cases are going on!! Ss are sick small minded little creeps, they try and befriend you make you. Eel you can trust and confine in them!! Ive had my 2 little girls taken from me an do you know what i dont even know why!! One minute its because my partner ( babies daddy) then its was because we didnt have a stable house, then it was our relationship seems volatile!! Wtf how can they say all of this when they have only ever visited us for half hour! How on earth the judge granted adoption for my babies under these conditions is disgusting!! I see so many cases and majority of the parents are mentioning ‘human rights’ and ‘baby p’s case’ ss now a days are taking no chances and just taking peoples babies without giving them a chance or even providing help and support so a child can go home to his/her birth parent! I guess it less hard work to just sign some papers and give them away. Sometimes i wonder if they get a bonus for getting a successful adoption/permanent order!! Arghh people we NEED to get together sign petitions and get the laws changed and throw these lazy arse scumbag ss out and get some understanding supporting TRUST WORTHY ones!!! Whos up for this? Get it in the papers and get our babies back?
I’m up for it! Join my group “We Are Against Forced Adoption!!” In FB and we will fiight!
They have already adopted my girls because my son past away and I found out natural cause and my son died I couldn’t tell them off like the ss wanted my to so they took them and put for adoption and it’s killing me I miss them more that words can say .the ss do not care about the parents or the children they are hurting I love my girls and I want them back but I don’t have money that why they do it to the parents because the ss we can fight back the kidnappers I never hurt my girls and they all they needed
there is something u can do im appealing my adoption order as the social lied so much i thought there was no reverse but fight and prove it was wrongly done ull get a chance like me there was no physically abuse or emotional there used my ex partner criminal record from 10 years its wrong n lied sooo much
How do I stop it I don’t no where to start they’ve kidnapped me daughter
My little boy riley has bin takeing from me and hes dad i hade riley 2 months early he went from 2 pound 11 to 10 pound 1 bin in foster care 9 weeks and only put pound and half on we are in court on Monday thay are trying to adopt what can we do its killing us
help me my 2 little girls are going to be adopted out and i not no what to do i love them so much and they taking them what do i do help me please
That what thay are doin to me ss took my boy in may last year because thy said I wouldent take him school when he waz old enouth to go and thay say a wouldent take him to A an E if he needed to go and thay said a would get back with his dad he 3 years old thay let me have contact with him a1 time a month until september then from september no1 as even been in touch to let me no anything about him he lived with me for 2 an half years never broke a bone in his tiny body he gose with foster carers for 6 months an brakes his arm thy never even rang me to let me no I don’t no what to do plz can some 1 tell me what I have to do to get my baby back I would do anything to hold him again an tell him how much I love him plz any body help me
I hear you love my son was taken from me he is a lovely happy little boy nor once did he have an injury in my care whilst in foster care he broke his arm because he was not supervised properly x x
Me too my son has been taken away from me and my daughter and i know what other a filling without any kind in the house I have cryiad so much and I have never stop no sleep for 2 years now I’m always crying and this is not good enough for people please stop all this please we ask In God name no woman was born to savers like this is like tocher and a where is human rights we need to stop this please we need this kinds in life we give bath to them so
we have 4 kids they were taken away from us in October 2013 the eldest 2 are in permanent foster care but the youngest 2 are up for adoption through the lies the ss told we are now appealing the decision made by the judge as we were made out to live in a violent home which is not the case but the judges never ever believe the parents only the ss
My 3 children my son and step son are in short term forster care which are both10 and one has ADHD and has been telling lies and my daughter is 3 has downsynome they are saying she is going up for adoption and the boys will stay in long term Forster care can any body help
Don’t forget social workers put words into childrens mouths by constanly questioning them trying to make them say something negative and they don’t leave the children alone its cruel so don’t believe everything they tell you, sigh nothing as well, they blackmail you into it. Adoption longtern care big money to be made by the contractors look at it in a different light they want your children for the money they can make them look at my brunwin blog site its tells a lot not all but thats to come these a crimes against humanity supported by your 3 main party MPs and some Police officers
My son and step son were put short term forster care the 2 boys are both 10 yrsold my son has ADHD and both him and his step have been telling lies and also my daughter is3 and has downsynome they are trying to make me sign they forms please can anybody he I just want them back
warning what you must all do take full names of everyone ask their managers name as well its important write everything down in detail keep all mail investigate those collection of names are thet running thie own bussiness thats what I done and it payed
Hi
This has happened to me also I need help ASAP!!!!
Has anyone any idea where you can get help in Scotland…. Please help for my children’s sake
My 2 grandaughters (twins) was born 3 months early and ss has told lies and convinced the court that I am a bad grandparent,the law didn’t give s/ services there order for adoption and sperated my grandaughter (twins) and I want to appeal against there lies and dishonestedy,my heart is broken and I haven’t eat properly, I need help,
We are going thro the same thing here, the SS have taken our baby for adoption! they lied and said we would put baby at risk of emotional and physical harm!! we have never harmed anyone, they just want to get more money and bonuses in their paypackets, they dont care what is in the childs best interests just theirs!
Im up for doin a protest if anyone wants to start one or help me do it, something seriously needs to be done this has got to stop!
we are grandparents who adopted 2 children age 6,4 in 2002.they been in and out a lot of foster homes, they came to us with a lot of emotional baggage, my daughter opened up to being sexualy abused whilst in foster care ,the local authority admitted it was ther fault as they had not cheaked the sleeping arrangments, they told us it would go no futher as the culprit was young and was abused himself.
my adopted daughter got pregnant and as she has on her records as a looked after child the ss were involved from the start of her pregnancy, she did struggle after babe was born but ss don’t help they just punished her by taking babe away we as grandparents tried for sgo but we did not pass the assessment , my neice went for sgo but she did not pass they sid she had learning difficulties because she did not understand all the legal jargon , she is a single mum with a very bright and polite young boy, the ss lied about us and my neice its all about a money not the chidren !
The ss and the childs guardian work together they do not look at the positive and the judge only seems to listen to them I tried to correct the lies the said in court but it went on deaf ears it is so corrupt my grandson is up for adoption I to am dyiny inside as is my husband and daughter SS is the best name for them! We all need need to fight against the corrupt ss and stand as one take it to parlament and be heard they don’t care about the children only money and there jobs .
i feel that ss have got a nerve taking children away and spiltting up twins for there own pockets,thay are cruel and evil my grandaughter are identical girls and ss had them put into foster care,thay lied about there blood family and i am fighting all the way to get them home,what can i do to get them home where thay are loved so much and need there family,
Help ss took my children instead of helping me 3 of my boys were placed in foster care where they were mentaly and physically abused my youngest 2 were foreced adoption my whole world has been devistated my the lies ss told in court how can I move on when it feel like I can’t live without them I’ve never hurt my children or any child help me
Anyone who has had their children adopted without your consent or are up for adoption I would like to hear from you I have 2 siblings in care and I am not impressed with the way things are going and looking at gathering everyone for something rather interesting as voices speak louder when together rather than alone.
Kind Regards
Dom Cowan
[email protected]
I have had my 5 year old son taken in to a closed adoption he was 3 when he was taken I was in a relationship that was violent but left I was left not coping very well with alittle boy who was showing signs of autisim Charlie my son is a beautiful natured boy he and I were very close I was offered a mum and baby unit I was excepted in both place I was told because of a time frame set by the courts and current government would not allow me the time although I had met all lists of expectation s by the court I was forced to say good bye to my son on the 20/12/2013 I have received no surport communication with soicical services since I have no idea if my son is alright were he is I was promised a letter once a year this I have not received my self and my mum have rang over 8 times and have left mesages with my address and number I have had the worst year of my life it’s ruined me I miss my son si much I have so much frustration and anxiety I have no were to turn or any advise i need help what can i do i souly believe Tha forced adoption is wrong
Hi my two children are being forced adopted I really want them back and need some advice they took my children of me at the hospital due to an ex children’s farther harming me and my baby he has now been sent to prison and has an injunction so he carnt come near me when he is released I didn’t hurt my children I suffers depression so the house wasn’t perfect but I got help for that and no longer depressed I have been to so many agencies and the solicitor don’t seem to be helping my last contact is next week and I just want them home where they belong I love them so much and the social services are saying so much stuff to make me look bad what isn’t true they should be helping family’s not stealing there kids iv done nothing to hurt my children and they was always happy with me it wasn’t until I stupidly took back my ex when things went wrong
hi there i am a mother of 7 my 5 oldest children live with me… 1 lives with my aunt under a special guardianship order that i have regular contact with and my 18 month baby has been placed for adoption on the grounds that i “might” make the same mistakes in the future i have asked to oppose the adoption and the adoption hearing has been adjourned until a guardian has been appointed and to make a assessment for the welfare of my son in my eyes my son should be returned to my care as there is no concerns for my other children that now live with me in the social workers words i feel that forced adoption is wrong and extremely damaging to the parents and the child’s future and this should stop innocent till proven guilty and as far as im concerned they have stolen my son and that in itself is a crime against human rights…
Sadly there’s not alot u can do if the judge has agreed it social have treated me poorly and only got involved because I was in Care myself it’s wrong they made me say good bye to her then had to do it again a day befor her first birthday which again is wrong for the agru and stress and upset u have to go thru again but remember once your child has been adopted once they turn 16 u can go knock on the front door stay strong
I have a group against socail services if you all wish to join on Facebook it’s called Britain’s got talent for stealing babies. My child was stolen and I help several people each day to keep their child etc and fight against ss. We’re. Looking into doing protests this year against them if you wish to join please do so x
Social services have lied and manipulated the system to force the adoption of.both my much loved boys aged 2 and 4…..please help me I feel lost